How to: Fitness

51 | Toxic Masculinity: The Dark Side of Fitness Culture

Michael Ulloa and Kate Lyman Season 3 Episode 51

Is the fitness industry helping men get healthier or just teaching them to suffer in silence?

In this episode “Toxic Masculinity: The Dark Side of Fitness Culture” of The How to Fitness Podcast, Kate Lyman and Michael Ulloa confront the damaging influence of toxic masculinity in the fitness industry. They explore how modern fitness culture has become more about proving dominance than promoting true health and well-being and the real-life consequences are staggering.

From the rise of steroid use among young men and the glorification of shredded, emotionally numb "alpha males" to the mental health crisis among male gym-goers, this conversation goes deep. Michael shares the personal toll of calling out toxic culture online, while Kate reveals why she left the CrossFit world after years of enduring misogyny.

This episode isn’t just a takedown of “gym bro” culture, it’s a wake-up call. If you're a fitness professional, health coach, or simply someone navigating your wellness journey, this conversation will change how you see the industry.


TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Introduction to Unrealistic Fitness Ideals

00:17 Hosts Catch Up After a Break

00:56 Kate's Offline Week Adventures

03:35 Michael's Excitement for Today's Topic 

04:49 The Impact of Toxic Masculinity in Fitness 

05:55 Reading from 'Men Who Hate Women' 

10:59 Defining Toxic Masculinity 

15:43 Personal Experiences with Toxic Masculinity 

19:10 Social Media's Role in Perpetuating Toxic Ideals 

20:57 The Power of Self-Talk in Fitness 

21:04 Toxic Masculinity in the Fitness Industry 

21:34 Social Media's Role in Promoting Toxic Fitness Culture 

22:40 Masculinity Marketing in Wellness Trends 

23:15 Viral Fitness Influencers and Performative Masculinity 

25:02 The Harmful Impact of Toxic Fitness Culture 

25:41 Mental Health and Body Image Issues in Men 

28:30 Steroid Use in the Fitness Industry 

34:32 The Normalization and Risks of Steroid Use 

37:12 Creating Inclusive Fitness Spaces 

41:26 Final Thoughts and Call to Action


📚 Resources Mentioned:

Book: Men Who Hate Women by Laura Bates

TV Show: Adolescence – A must-watch on toxic masculinity and youth culture

Mental Health Stats: Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM), Mental Health Foundation

Influencer Analysis: Liver King, Brian Johnson, and the problem with performative health

48 | How to Fix Your Feed and Feel Better About Your Body with Natasha Devon https://youtu.be/119cgjsFdmY

UK Anti-Doping Report https://www.ukad.org.uk/sites/default/files/2020-01/UKAD IPED Report FINAL.pdf

The global epidemiology of anabolic-androgenic steroid use: a meta-analysis and meta-regression analysis - https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24582699/

Current use and abuse of anabolic steroids Uso y abuso de agentes anabolizantes en la actualidad - https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/art

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